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What You Focus On, You Gravitate Towards

You've heard it said that what you focus on you attract. I want to challenge that thought because that hasn't been working for me...ever. Things that I want, don't just appear and move by some mystical force of the universe to me and fulfill all of my dreams and desires.

Here's what I've found to be true.


These two beliefs have opposite perspectives.

"What you focus on you attract" postures you in a waiting zone; you are waiting for things in life to come to you.

"What you focus on you gravitate towards"; you are moving forward towards what you want your life to look like.

All of this came to me as I was taking an early morning walk around my neighborhood. A car passed by me as I was walking down the side of the street with no sidewalk. I noticed that even though there's plenty of space for the car to pass by, it was pulling to the side that I was walking on as it approached. The driver waived as he passed by (as most do in my neighborhood) and that's when I realized something.

In the process of moving forward, the driver's focus caused the vehicle to gravitate to what he was focusing on, not the other way.

What is your attention focused on right now? Is it moving you in a positive or negative direction? When thinking about what you are focused on, do you feel contented or overwhelmed? When you imagine yourself achieving your goal or dream what will that look like?

Do you feel lost, stuck, or frustrated that you can't even begin to dream about what you want your life to look like? -I have been there and I discovered how to dream again and I can help you do the same. (You can read my story here: )

Do you already know what you want to achieve and accomplish but feel like you're in a holding pattern not knowing how to move forward? -I have been there too and have learned the secret to getting out of patterns and behaviors that stop us from moving forward.

Stop waiting around for your dreams to come to you. Move out of the waiting area of life. It's time to gravitate towards what you want your life to look like. You can achieve your goals and dreams in your business, home, and personal arenas in 2021.

What are you waiting for? Your blessed life is just ahead!

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