Life can unexpectedly serve up steamed green beans.
In my life, I’ve found these 3 ways to be the most common in which I end up finding myself on a path that I didn’t plan on walking simply by making unhealthy choices.
1) Relationships. I’ve chosen friends in my past, that are controlling and I end up becoming the friend that feels the need to make her happy to keep our friendship. I’ve been a people pleaser. After the fun of the new friendship wears off, and without healthy boundaries in place, I am resentful of that friend. This relationship can also be dating relationships and marriages. -Yikes! I know I’m speaking to someone out there who knows exactly what I mean.
2) Misuse of Finances. In years prior, I’ve wanted to fit in so badly with the community that surrounds me that I’ve racked up quite a credit card debt. I didn’t honor God with the money that he’s blessed me with and I didn’t honor my husband. I’ve been sneaky. That path led to regret and mistrust between my husband and me.
3) Following Leaders Who Don’t Lead. My husband and I have sat under the authority of leaders who don’t lead us deeper into the things of God. We’ve innocently placed ourselves under such leadership with illusions of grandeur and false expectations. When the promises fall flat, you see behind the curtain, and you realize it’s never going to happen. This path is loaded with disappointment and unforgiveness. This leader can also be a leader at work and in the home, such as your husband. -again, yikes!
The good news is there is a way to get back onto the Path of the Blessing. -and when I say “the” I’m referring to God’s path for your life.
If you want to know more, you can find my book, “Path of the Blessing: Abraham, Isaac, Jacob” on Amazon.